Your engagement session is one of the most exciting parts of your wedding journey. It’s a time to celebrate your love, get comfortable in front of the camera, and create memories that you’ll cherish forever. But for many couples, the idea of a photoshoot can feel a little intimidating. What should you wear? What if you feel awkward in front of the camera? How do you make sure your photos feel natural and authentic?

Don’t worry girl, your engagement session doesn’t have to be stressful! With a little planning and the right mindset, it can actually be one of the most fun and memorable experiences of your wedding season. Here’s how to make the most of it.

Choose a Location That Feels Personal

The best engagement photos happen when you’re in a place that reflects your relationship. Whether it’s a cozy coffee shop where you had your first date, a scenic location where you love to go together, or your favorite downtown streets, picking a location that has meaning will make your session feel authentic!

If you’re unsure, don’t worry your photographer (aka me!) can suggest locations that suit your style, lighting, and the overall vibe you want for your photos.

Plan Your Outfits Ahead of Time

Outfits can make or break your engagement session. The goal is to feel confident and comfortable while also complementing each other! A few tips:

• Stick to colors and styles that suit your personalities.
• Avoid busy patterns that can distract from your faces.
• Layering is your friend in the fall/winter – jackets, scarves, or subtle accessories add depth and movement.
• Bring an extra outfit if you want to mix things up for different looks.

When you feel good in what you’re wearing, it shows in your photos.

Make Time for Connection, Not Perfection

Engagement photos are about capturing your relationship, not just your poses. Focus on each other, laugh, hold hands, walk together, and share quiet moments. The more natural your interactions, the more genuine your photos will feel.

I will guide you through poses, but don’t worry about memorizing anything. Think of your session as a date rather than a photoshoot. The more relaxed you are, the better the photos!

Don’t Stress the Small Stuff

Weather, a few stray hairs, or minor outfit wrinkles won’t ruin your photos. We’re are used to handling these little things, and in the end, it’s the connection between you two that matters most. If the session doesn’t go perfectly as planned, laugh about it! Often, those imperfect moments create the most memorable and authentic images.

Trust Your Photographer

A big part of keeping your engagement session stress-free is trusting your photographer. We’ve worked with many couples and know how to create a relaxed, enjoyable environment. Follow their lead, be open to suggestions, and let them capture the moments naturally!

Schedule at the Right Time

Golden hour is ideal for soft, flattering light. If possible, plan your session for this time. Also, make sure you aren’t rushed. Give yourselves plenty of time so you can enjoy the experience without feeling pressured!

Keep the Focus on Fun

Ultimately, engagement photos should be about celebrating your love. Don’t overthink poses or try to create perfect shots, focus on enjoying the moment together. These are the images you’ll treasure the most

Your engagement session is a chance to celebrate, connect, and capture the excitement of this chapter in your life. With thoughtful planning, a relaxed attitude, and a photographer you trust, it can be an incredibly fun and stress-free experience!

Remember: the best photos come from genuine smiles, laughter, and love, not perfection. So take a deep breath, enjoy each other, and let the magic happen.